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The Keys to Your Heart

You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free. In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved. You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change. You would be forced to break up with someone who was insecure and in constant need of reassurance. Your ideal relationship is comforting. You crave a relationship where you always feel warmth and love. Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment. You think of marriage as something that will confine you. You are afraid of marriage. In this moment, you think of love as commitment. Love only works when both people are totally devoted.

What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

well let's see..

i'm not sure about the untamed bit :p .. or about the fact that marriage is regarded as confinement..

but on a more positive note.. yeah i do crave warmth and being told... that's an aspect about myself that i was never aware of before..

and the most important things in a relationship?

trust - you sometimes need to earn it but you need to have it otherwise you're confusing yourself with suspicions and anger.. you don't deserve that and neither does the other person!

be committed or be frank.. give it everything.. and if you can't...say so! personally i think that once you're committed... you're committed for life and nothing can ever change that in your mind or your heart.

it can't be reasoned out.. i used to try and analyze words and gestures and actions. don't! that comes with the trust of course..

sometimes the most stereotyped words or things or celebrations can mean so much just because they're so typically associated with love and romance.. though originality doesn't hurt too because it makes you feel good :)

never under-estimate the power of the written word (i am hinting at something here..)

be yourself.. if you're the kind of person who sings off-key or dances like a fool or cries buckets at movies or can't go through the day without washing your hand fifteen times... don't stop! that's who you are and that's who you're loved as..

god bless the man who invented the mobile phone.. the SMS can be an easy tool of not only your usual communication but can also be used to fight, abuse and then make up..

you will fight.. if you don't.. tell me how! if you do.. it's okay.. shit happens.. but it doesn't last unless you let it.. and don't hold words said in anger against a person.. you shout and yell and say a lot of things that you don't mean..

it helps if you listen to music together.. loads of songs have a lot of different but special memories :)

never write something off because you feel you don't have stuff in common.. so you like books, he likes sports.. it can be a sexy combination :p

it can suck.. it can make you laugh like crazy and also cry in a way you never thought possible.. but nothing else in the world can feel better.. and nothing else can replace it.. don't let it go.

yeah, this is jayashree's views on romance and relationships! take it or leave it.. :)